My wife, partner, and chief skeptic-in-chief. Doctor of Physical Therapy. The reason the budget actually got followed!
Dagny, our beautiful and spirited young lady, "8 going on 18" --and always daddy's princess; Freyja, our new baby and new inspiration to keep putting in work every day.
I'd done the "right" things. I left an insanely lucrative Managerial Associate position on Wall Street to commission in the Marine Corps in 2008 and get in the fight. I deployed twice to Helmand between 2010 and 2012. Earned the Combat Action Ribbon and decorations to match. Despite all this, why was I still broke, struggling every month?
The problem was that I thought personal finance and finance were two separate concepts. I knew DCF, Income Statements, and Financial Analysis cold. I'd modeled equity valuations for institutional products that generated $1.2 billion in net inflows. I held a Masters in Business Economics. But I was still broke. What gives?
None of it had translated to my bank account. I hadn't run the math for myself: to become wealthy, you must treat your personal finances just like a business manages their bottom line.
In 2018, Karen and I made a decision: we would run our finances the way a Marine runs a planning cycle. Deliberate. Sequenced. Measurable.
We built a budget that hurt to look at. We started saving — what I'd come to call the War Chest. Then we deployed it: into our first cash-flowing rental property. Then another. Then another.
By 2023, our investments were earning more in a year than I had in any single year of military service.
An Accredited Financial Counselor® (AFC®) is a financial professional trained to meet individuals and families where they are — helping them build a strong foundation, change money behavior, and work toward lasting financial well-being.
The focus is education and counseling: budgeting, debt and credit, savings strategies, and the day-to-day decisions that build stability — not selling products or managing your investments. According to AFCPE®, the credential is held to rigorous, independently accredited standards, which is part of why it’s among the most respected marks in financial counseling.
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“Marine Officers learn their role as leaders is based on Teach-Coach-Mentor, the exact same skillset employed by AFCs -- so I get to continue doing what I love, and am good at.
“Becoming an AFC® was really important to me because it validates our skills and cements our professionalism, and is essential to establishing trust even before our first call.”